One Mom shares a letter with her daughter explaining why she is not getting a smartphone for her 12th birthday.
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A science teacher asked her students to finish this sentence: ‘What my parents don’t know about social media is…’ The answers were SICKENING. Heartbreaking. Depressing. Out of the 85 kids who answered, around 70 of them admitted to keeping some kind of social media secret from their parents.
My daughter is ten. She wants me to download the Musical.ly app on my phone so she can make funny lip-sync videos. Everyone has it, she whines, even the kid whose mom is an FBI agent/social worker/pediatrician/nun.
Wow. Well. In that case…
I download the app while she’s at school but it won’t let me explore without an account. I create a profile under Chardonaynay47, only to delete that and opt for something less momish — gummibear9.
One word sums up my experience: Nowayismykidgettingthisapp.
If you’re worried about getting your child a phone or if you are regretting the fact that you have already have—you are not alone. In fact, I’m worried about it too. And the more I read about smartphones and kids, the more concerned I get. This is an important topic that I wanted to address before my 10-year-old daughter’s peers got phones. It turns out I may have waited too long. The average age for a first smart phone is now 10 years old. My daughter has affirmed this finding telling me point blank, “Mom, most of the kids in my class already have phones.”
Learn how one family recently raised a teen without a smartphone. You will learn why they chose to delay this technology for their daughter and the many benefits to waiting. The Mom answers some tough questions too including:
- Did I worry that she wouldn’t understand our decision or be mad at us?
- Does she feel that she has been left out?
- Was I concerned she was not going to be prepared for the digital world?
- Does she regret not having a smartphone or social media?
- Did she “binge” and “go crazy” when she finally got her smartphone?
- Will she be behind when it comes to technology use for a future job?
- Do we regret our decision to delay my daughter’s smartphone?